I'm a lover of femininity and grace. Here are some of my personal tips on looking and feeling more feminine.
My number one tip is to wear clothes that look feminine. Incorporate colors and materials that men don't wear, like lace and chiffon. Include some soft pastel colors as well as some bursts of color. Always dress according to your age but don't forget to make it a little fun. Your dresses shouldn't be too tight, as that looks tacky and the dresses shouldn't be very loose either. Make sure whatever dresses, shirts or pants you choose to wear suit and enhance your body shape/type.
I personally love dresses that are cinched at the waist because these dresses look so fun and flirty and they also very efficiently hide a small pot belly. lol I've a lot of these type of dresses which I wear at home. They are comfy and cute.
Clean out your wardrobe and organize it. This is also a perfect opportunity to remove and give away any clothes you rarely wear. After clearing everything out, you now have a clear idea of what you own and most importantly what you need to buy. One way to make your shopping efficient is to write down how many pants, shirts or dresses you need and in what color. This will make it very easy for you to shop and you'll have a clear guideline which will prevent you from overbuying.