Imagine a woman who is drop dead gorgeous. She is very cruel to animals, elderly and children. She's always unhappy and nothing her man does is ever enough. She is ungrateful and rude to him and puts him down all the time. Always complaining, always nagging.
Who do you think a man would choose? The first woman may look like a movie star but she is hollow and negative, she is replaceable. However, the second woman is precious. She will always have his heart and so she is irreplaceable.
To be a good wife, a pretty face is not enough. A gorgeous woman will have a man's heart for a few weeks or months. But, it doesn't last. External beauty is temporary while other qualities such as intelligence, humor, loyalty, compassion and charm are ever-lasting. We often focus so much on our physical beauty we forget to make our insides good too.
Physical beauty is not everything. Ask a man and he will tell you.
Men want women who are smart, who are able to carry out intelligent conversations and not just be stuck being a homely wife knowing nothing beyond the kitchen.
We can only become beautiful on the inside by removing any ill feelings, jealousy, hatred, gossiping about other people, putting others down.
Let's try to be better women, lifting up everyone around us. Being a person of optimism and hope. Caring for people, animals and trees. We can be beautiful by following our passions and dreams. Being actively involved in social causes and working towards doing something good for the society.
So, smile when you see your man! Apply kohl and perfume yourself. Pick him up if he is feeling down. Make him laugh! Cook something he loves. Be thankful if he does something sweet for you. And, stop nagging him about his mother. Learn to ignore things you can't change.
Be something more than just a pretty wife, become irreplaceable.