First Year Of Marraige What To Expect?

If you are getting married or are newly married this is for you people.
Most newly weds often think that their life will be picture perfect like a fairytale and there won't be no problems. This kind of perception is what leads to many problems. Because reality kills all fairy tales. Well, the good news is if you are informed about what to expect you will be able to deal with it in a better way.

  • It won't always be good, there will be conflicts. But, the way in which you deal with them will make the base of your relationship stronger.
  • There will be a 'conflict of interests'. For instance, you may want to go out while he may want to stay home and watch football. Work it out in a way that satisfies both.
  • Talking on the phone is obviously way different than living together. Because when you are engaged you show your ideal self to each other. Living together you have to bear each others annoying habits too.
  • There might be problems related to finance, families and others. Sometimes you might feel regret, or just over-whelmed with your new life. Remember that it's only a phase and you will pass through all this with a stronger relationship.
  • Talk to married people. If you have married friends talk to them. You might get a fair idea about what the deal is. What problems you might face. Every marriage is different, this is just to get an idea of how it really works. 
  • When you are mad at each other (and that will be alot of times) don't try to resolve everything right then. Give it time. When you feel a whole lot better then sit down and talk it out. 
  • Remember that the first year of your marriage is the base of your relationship. So try to keep negativity out.
It's a lifetime of friendship. A beautiful journey yet sometimes crazy. The first year of marriage is said to be a critical one. Ones you get through it, things will be more stable. :)

Marriage is an adventure, like going to war.
Gilbert K. Chesterton 



  1. Asalamalaikum sis! Amazing mashaAllah! Loved this and every other post on your blog.. GottO know about ur blog 2 hours ago and I am literally hooked!!! JazakaAllah khair!!!!!
    #girlfromarabia as well :)

  2. Walaikumsalam! Thankyou for your sweet comments. :D <3


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